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Creating an online dating profile the wrong way can potentially sabotage any chances you have of true love.

People fail miserably, (men in particular), and give up the search for their potential partner, by not paying attention to the right dating advice.

Without doubt you are destroying any chance you have of attracting a partner by being misinformed.

You probably have been:

• Creating silly errors that will lead to you barking up the wrong tree.
• Neglecting to add the correct information.
• Not being aware that every single word you write has meaning.
• Making sure you are on the right dating site for your needs.

Getting it wrong can cause you to abandon all hope of ever being romantically linked to someone.

But the good news is that by listening to good honest advice then acting on it will improve your techniques, it should improve your chances and that in turn should lead to your success.

‘I want to begin online dating, but I don’t know where to begin’

What are the best dating sites?

This is a question that is often asked and despite the colossal amount of information offered online about the different dating sites, there is no clear cut answer.

Now if you personalised the question with ‘What is the best dating site for me?’, that will be easier to answer than the generic former question.

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The best way to do this is to ask yourself a number of questions like:

• What am I looking for, a gay/straight/bi-sexual, dating site?
• Do I need to more specialised dating site?
• What are my wants/needs?
• What do I want to accomplish from this/these relationships?
• Do I need to be on a dating site that is more specialised?
• Do I need a site where it caters to lots of people?

How to approach online dating

Everyone is different, some people think that their strategy and methods used should surely work..nevertheless , one must approach this way of thinking with caution.

There is a way of dealing with dating but the techniques require a different way of thinking

• Be open minded.
• Try not to be set in your ways.
• Be adaptable.
• Be open to trying something different.

There is a belief that men have to do all the initiating and on certain sites that is true, but men do find it particularly attractive in a woman if she initiates first contact. Men need to be honest, trustworthy, authentic and genuine.

Internet dating advice for men and women

Lots of men needlessly quit after 3 months of online dating because of various reasons, but it seems such a waste.… There is a problem with women having too many options though so this may contribute to this problem.

Mens ego’s bruise very easily and their lack of motivation plummets and they become despondent and disinterested with each knock back and with each unanswered message. causing them to quit.

Although men tend to message a lot of women, men should focus on quality rather than quantity.

Men get upset at the lack of replies back from their initial enquiry, but have you thought about the fact that there is probably a glaringly obvious answer to this?

Like whoever you are messaging, might just have not joined properly and have not paid the subscription fee needed to be able to message you back.

This one problem probably accounts for some of the profiles women have put up.

The women that have joined (but have not yet paid for the full service) are testing the waters, they have signed up with no commitment to stay.

Another reason women don’t answer their messages because they may have opened up a new email and have forgotten to simply check it on a regular basis.

Or they have been bombarded with messages (spammed almost) and have to literally weed out the mr wrongs quickly, and that can include those men who just write ‘ Hi there’.

A way around this is to pursue her, if you really want her, then don’t just stop at one message. If the first one didn’t catch her attention, try again with a different message and a different pose on your profile pic. Try this maybe two or three times, and if she still isn’t interested then move on to the next girl on your list, and rather than messaging a whole load of women at the same time, just pursue one at a time and take your time over it, put some thought into it and it will show through.

Men’s pet hates

• Women that say they want a soul mate.
• Boring profiles that are too generic.

Men think that women are playing games if they don’t answer the initial email. They would like it if women are more upfront. If they leave a guy hanging for a response then that has a negative impact. Men would like a response, any response with an explanation would do. It will create closure for them to be able to move on.